I am really
proud of myself now. I did it! I deleted my Vinted App!
In case you
don’t know, it is an app, where (mostly) girls and women exchange, buy and sell
second hand clothes. Most European countries have a website and mobile version
of it. Why am I making such a big deal out of it then? It’s just an app. Let me
explain.
Vinted
started in Czech Republic more than a decade ago. I joined when I was like
sixteen or seventeen, so I have the account for almost ten years. That is a
hell lot of time. You wonder what is so great about a second-hand-clothes-app?
Well, I never really sold clothes on there. I didn’t even buy many. But there
is a function for opening a new threads for discussions in the community
section of the app (or website). You can discuss anything from motherhood,
style, shopping tips, household struggles, love affairs, family issues, really
anything. You can ask the community for help, when you can’t decide what colour
of a handbag you should choose, you can ask others for tips and opinions on
topics like Zero waste or going vegan, you can ask for advice, when your
relationship doesn’t feel right or when your pet won’t stop chewing your shoes.
I am pretty
sure there are other platforms like this and that most young people are a part
of some online community, where they can discuss stuff and share what occupies
them. The thing is, being active on Vinted for almost a decade really took
overhand several times. I spend whole nights researching options and trying to
advise complete strangers in their difficult life situations, I shared every
success and failure with those strangers first, too. Sometimes, they would know
more about my fears, worries, wishes, achievements and failures than my best
friends and family. I have not seen some of my friends for months or even years
but I checked Vinted every day multiple times, to see, if anything new
happened. I installed the mobile app maybe five years ago, after I moved to
Germany and got my first real smartphone. I didn’t feel so alone, with hundreds
of women being there for me any time of the day. I haven’t made any real
girlfriends since I moved abroad and I only get to see my old friends few times
a year.
Last few weeks
or maybe months I’ve been really trying hard to change and improve my life. I’ve
been using the app QualityTime to track how much time I actually spend on my
phone. I knew it was a lot. I use it for a lot of tasks after all, chatting,
learning, reading, listening to podcasts, music, audiobooks, banking, shopping
– it saves me a lot of time, too. I was convinced I use it for important and
useful stuff.
I looked at
the data from the QualityTime app and realized I have been spending 4 – 7 hours
a day on my phone! That is like a part time job! Only that I don’t get paid for
it. Moreover, I pay for the internet and battery charging. On the top of that,
at least one hour a day but mostly at least the half of the whole time I spent
on my phone was this Vinted app.
Even when
I’m really optimistic and count very low and would say I spent half an hour a
day on there the last 8 years (website and app) – still it is 1460 hours, 60
days – but I’m sure it’s more – I spent several months of my life on an online
platform with total strangers. I got several good tips, I learned a lot, I met
some interesting people and I made a few “friends”. I travelled to Romania with
a group of people I met there. I bought several cool pieces of clothes I love,
I explored shops, websites and lifestyles I would have never find out about. I
have helped people and got help and support, when I needed it, that is
definitely a good thing. Still, it wasn’t worth the time.
Now you
see, it was a big deal for me. And now it’s over a week since I deleted it. Do
I miss it? Yes. Do I still use the platform? Yes. I am not (yet) prepared to
delete an account I had for so long. Do I still use my phone too much? Yes, I
do. But hey, I even had a day or two in the last week, when I didn’t even
thought of signing in until late at night. And you know what? I missed nothing.
Nobody died or made fatally bad decision without my advice. Nobody missed me.
I’m happy I did it. It took like one minute to make a big change and a real
impact on my life. It cost no money and didn’t even hurt.
PS: I wrote
this article back in January or maybe first week of February. Now it’s the end
of March. It is really “out of sight – out of mind” I have not signed in for at
least two weeks. I wonder sometimes how some girls from the community are doing
but I didn’t care enough to sign in. I managed to reduce my screen time to
somewhere between 1-3 hours a day. I think there is still some improvement potential
in there but it is still the half of the time I used to spend on my phone and
that’s huge for me. Just in two moths I broke a habit I had for years – I would
have never believed it’s so easy and painless.